Linda’s friend Pat is very sick (critical)- these are all the tubes minus the ventilator. Linda was designated as the executor of her medical decisions”- there is NOT agreement among family and friends and doctors. Linda & I were redoing all our estate planning this summer but this situation has given me pause to relook at my living will and Power of Attorney to make sure these situations are covered. If you do not have these documents, I got mine off the Missouri Attorney General’s page (Living Will), we already have the Power of Attorney through a lawyer but you can find that form as well. This is a hard situation and difficult for the people who love you- make sure your ducks are in a row.