IT’s OFFICIAL!!!!

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Well it’s official I AM NOW KELLY JEAN DI SANTO! Just left the DMV after changing my license and need to go back tomorrow for my registration as I forgot the title for the car. Think I will take off an hour and a half early tomorrow from work and get to Social Security as they have bankers hours and get my social security card done. Doing my cell bill, checking account on line now, bank for Mortgage will get done tomorrow and all other bills will change as I mail the bills out. Can’t think of anything else but I do know this is the best and happiest momment I’ve had in a month and I couldn’t be MORE PROUD to be me again!!!

13 Comments

  1. Avatar Erin said:

    Let’s also not forget that as much as you kids ARE Bailey’s, you are DiSanto’s too! For me, that will never change and I will always love you no matter which name you have. I hope that you will do the same for us and your mom.

    September 23, 2008
  2. Avatar Erin said:

    Kelly, I am very glad that you made a decision for you that makes you happy! Sometimes it is the little changes that can mean a big difference… putting yourself first is the hardest thing to do sometimes, but you have to take care of YOU to be happy. Bailey or DiSanto, we love you all. We are all still family and always will be, but sometimes we need to be careful of the things we say and do. Consequences can be harsh truths and maybe what we all need sometimes to grow. At the same time we all need to remember that people make mistakes (and I mean this for both sides). We all need to be good people and remember to forgive at some point and try to move forward for a better future. The other thing I want to remind Sarah, Nick, and Kate is that with you father’s health conditions, you may someday find yourself with only your mom left (I don’t mean to be morbid, but it is true)… you will need her and you will want her to be there for you so don’t burn that bridge or you might be left with no parent to turn to. Your mom loves you very much and only wants the best for you all. As you get older you will find that you will want your mom there. As a family we need to learn to stop hurting one another, to fogive when others make a mistake, to accept those flaws that we ALL have, and show respect and love for each other. I love you more than you will ever know Sarah, Nick and Kate… but I beg you to please stop hurting your mom… like I said before, someday she may be the only parent you have left. Sometimes when one family memeber gets hurt, we all hurt and that’s hard for everyone.

    And I know I am not her child, but I love her and I know that she has tried very hard to raise you kids the best she can. I personally think she is an amazing and strong woman and has been through much. I wish that you could see the same, brave person that I do. Anyway, I love each of you and hope we can all find a way to peacefully get through this without so much pain. We also understand that you kids have been through a lot too, and have also been hurt along the way. I am here for you if you ever need someone to talk to.

    September 23, 2008
  3. Avatar Kris & Girls said:

    Okay I have also sat back and not said a word – can’t no more -first you go farley – well said and very true – second thank you all of the members of the DiSanto family for standing with your sister – that my niece is the true meaning of love and respect – may want to look it up in your fancy college dictionary. Remember you and the Bailey’s are the ones who decided you wanted to take a swing – be careful what you wish for – and I will say this yes you ARE a bailey – good luck with that. My children are also products of a divorce but you would never find them disrespecting EITHER of their parents or their nana & poppy. You are old enough to know right from wrong and you and your brother and sister can learn the consequences of your actions – our family has always loved you and have shown it by NEVER asking you to choose or treat a parent of yours with disrespect – if that is what you feel you have to do to be loved then I pray for you everyday. I love my sister and will stand with her – you want to take another swing another will come back.You want to treat her with respect then respect and love you will receive back – its pretty simple.

    September 19, 2008
  4. Avatar Kris & Girls said:

    Okay I have also sat back and not said a word – can’t no more -first you go farley – well said and very true – second thank you all of the members of the DiSanto family for standing with your sister – that my niece is the true meaning of love and respect – may want to look it up in your fancy college dictionary. Remember you and the Bailey’s are the ones who decided you wanted to take a swing – be careful what you wish for – and I will say this yes you ARE a bailey – good luck with that. My children are also products of a divorce but you would never find them disrespecting EITHER of their parents or their nana & poppy. You are old enough to know right from wrong and you and your brother and sister can learn the consequences of your actions – our family has always loved you and have shown it by NEVER asking you to choose or treat a parent of yours with disrespect – if that is what you feel you have to do to be loved then I pray for you everyday. I love my sister and will stand with her – you want to take another swing another will come back.You want to treat her with respect then respect and love you will receive back – its pretty simple.

    September 19, 2008
  5. Avatar Kris & Girls said:

    Okay I have also sat back and not said a word – can’t no more -first you go farley – well said and very true – second thank you all of the members of the DiSanto family for standing with your sister – that my niece is the true meaning of love and respect – may want to look it up in your fancy college dictionary. Remember you and the Bailey’s are the ones who decided you wanted to take a swing – be careful what you wish for – and I will say this yes you ARE a bailey – good luck with that. My children are also products of a divorce but you would never find them disrespecting EITHER of their parents or their nana & poppy. You are old enough to know right from wrong and you and your brother and sister can learn the consequences of your actions – our family has always loved you and have shown it by NEVER asking you to choose or treat a parent of yours with disrespect – if that is what you feel you have to do to be loved then I pray for you everyday. I love my sister and will stand with her – you want to take another swing another will come back.You want to treat her with respect then respect and love you will receive back – its pretty simple.

    September 19, 2008
  6. Avatar La said:

    Funny how a simple comment offends but stories filled with mistruths and exaggerations posted on my space are ok. You get what you give!

    September 19, 2008
  7. Avatar Kim said:

    Maybe this is one of those moments when Aunt Mim should sit on her fingers… however… I wish to point out that this family has always shown the Bailey family respect. That has, up to now, included your Dad and his family! The same cannot be said of the Bailey family and their malicious intentions to further hurt my sister. To me, that is what has been ridiculous! As a child … you owe your parents (not just your Dad) but your Mom also, respect. You seem to have forgotten what that is in her case. Your Father seems to have forgotten what that is, despite the fact that she IS the mother of his children. I have never tried to intrude into any of my brothers or sisters lives, or into what happens in their households, or with their children, but to sit back and watch the hurtful treatment of my sister has truly saddened me. We have all sat back far too long not wanting to "butt" in, but perhaps we should have spoken up sooner. My sister will always be your Mother, and it’s high time you start to show her that you love her and respect her. When I grew up with Nana and Poppy, respect for my parents was Rule # 1, and many is the time I got an attitude adjustment to remind me of that! As a parent… I EXPECT that my children will respect me, their Dad, their Grandparents, and all the members of their family.

    Kelly, congratulations on the name change. I hope that you can begin to heal and move on. I apologize for speaking up, but I guess I needed to say what I had to say. I love your kids, and I love you, but they need to understand that disrespect is not acceptable.

    September 19, 2008
  8. Avatar Kay said:

    You get respect when you give respect.

    Furthermore, it was a joke.

    September 18, 2008
  9. Avatar sarah said:

    im sorry but i just have to say the bailey who comment is rediculus… me my brother and my sister are all bailey’s have some respect!!!!!

    September 18, 2008
  10. Avatar beth said:

    That’s really great… I think you make a far better DiSanto anyway!!! Keep moving forward, I keep doing the same. We love you!

    September 18, 2008
  11. Avatar Kay said:

    Bailey Who?!

    September 18, 2008
  12. Avatar hot mama said:

    Tis a fine name too. It is a start to move forward. Keep going and don’t let ANYONE intimidate you!!!!! Mom

    September 18, 2008
  13. Avatar La said:

    Welcome home…

    September 17, 2008

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